Thursday, January 30, 2020

Demystifying The 4:00 am Morning Routine

5 am Morning Routine

What happens when you get up early?
That’s a question I have researched many times. I like getting up early and knowing that it does good for my body & mood; I get that extra strength to keep this habit. In this article, I explore some of the deeper mysteries of how the mind works when it is activated earlier than usual. Hope you feel as inspired reading it as much as I loved writing it.


Making the morning routine
To those who can get up early without setting alarm, I say you are blessed. Not many have that much of control over the self. To me, the greatest thing that made me develop this habit was reframing my idea of it. I had tried everything. From putting up a running gear in bed for the morning to setting puzzles as the alarm on the phone, I did it all. Some days I got up before the alarm even rang, but other days were a pain. I slogged out of bed, put down the alarm, and slept again. The intoxicating morning sleep had me in its ever-long grasps. Every night I would go to sleep while making a promise to myself about getting up early, and most times I bailed when the actual moment of the test arose.
Then I began a routine. I started writing a gratitude journal. Every night, I wrote 3 things I was grateful for. I never repeated. I thought of different things for every day. And when I slept, those pointers started getting registered in my mind. I did this for about 21 days, which is the time a person takes to develop a new habit

5 am morning routine



Then I began noticing change in my happiness level
This was the changing point, because it gave me the motivation to carry on. Being a freelancer, I need high energy throughout the day. In my work there is no one else to talk. I am alone every day, working on with words to create sentences that someday become part of a story. I can’t afford to be spiritless. It directly affects my work quality and reduces my client retention capability.
The amount of energy each one has is the same. You can learn to save it by not plugging into activities that drain it out. I call it Maintaining The Higher Connection. During the day, I take a moment away from work to sit in absolute silence. During this minute, I feel myself as a being who is in touch with the Higher Power. It is just like charging a phone. If a phone is not charged when its battery is about to end, it dies. When a non-living being thing needs energy to work, don’t we – the most beautiful creation of God? I use this as a basis to converse with the Higher Energy, sharing my thoughts and observation of that hour. This relaxes me, gives me new perspective on  the projects I am working on and removes negativity. This is a fun thing to do. Doesn’t take much time, but has hell lot of benefits.

5 am morning routine


You don’t need extra time to meditate. You have it already.
Meditation has to do more with state of mind than anything else. When I began getting up at 4:00 am, I realized I have more time on my hands than the rest. It made me happy. I had extra hours because others were sleeping. The whole world around me was still in dreams. I could go for a jog, write, do yoga/stretching and use that time better than others. I did all of it, making sure that I did not repeat any activity for a week. That ways, I always had diversity in my morning routine. This gave me a reason to get up before sunrise and build up a consistency that I still take pride in.



Like anything you read? Want to experience meditation? I am one crazy-about-meditation kind of person who likes to experiment it as much as I can. Give me a shout at sood(dot)nitima(at)gmail(dot)com & I’d love to share! 

Love,

Nitima

Thursday, January 23, 2020

10 Commandments to Be Happy

10 Commandments  to Be Happy

  1. Thou shall always give. If you have nothing else, give peaceful vibrations.
  2. Thou shall smile at atleast five strangers every day.
  3. Before thou sleep at night, thou shall spend 10 minutes in deep breathing.
  4. Thou shall make an effort to contact those with whom you aren’t on speaking terms at least once an year.
  5. On festivals/birthdays/important days, thou shall call friends/family members and wish them personally instead of sending a WhatsApp message.
  6. Thou shall not lie or take advantage of any person/position.
  7. Thou shall not corrupt your mind with wasteful thoughts that drain energy. 
  8. Thou shall learn to identify your negative emotions – irritability, anger, hatred, jealously, indifference and offer yourself for redemption to the higher power.
  9. Thou shall walk/tender to plants/play with pets/jog/run/dance/workout/play thrice a week for 20 minutes. 
  10. Thou shall cooperate with/extend help to at least one person every day.


Monday, January 20, 2020

Spirituality Quotes to Live By

Spirituality is more than religion. It is about knowing the Self, God and Time. Understanding the life journey is an interesting aspect. With its many ups and downs, adventures, and incredible memories, life takes us through experiences that make us who we are. 

And if you’re looking to find just the right words to express what spirituality means to you or are looking for the perfect spiritual quotes about life journey, inspirational spiritual quotes, beautiful spiritual quotes, spiritual quotes about love, spiritual wisdom quotes, daily spiritual quotes, spiritual quotes about god or spiritual quotes about strength, this blog post has got you covered. Offbeat Spirituality has also a collection of stories/posts on understanding spirituality:

Top 50 Best Spiritual Quotes To Live By

Spiritual Quotes About Life Journey

Sometimes a deep, meaningful quote about spirituality is just want you need to delve deeper and find meaning of life. Read these aloud for a better understanding or add them to a new photo mug to keep goal of living in front of you. 

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  • "The spiritual life is not a life before, after, or beyond our everyday existence. No, the spiritual life can only be real when it is lived in the midst of the pains and joys of the here and now."- Henri Nouwen 
  • "Having a spiritual life is so important in everybody's life."- Lou Holtz
  • "True education is concerned not only with practical goals but also with values. Our aims assure us of our material life, our values make possible our spiritual life."- Ludwig Mies van der Rohe
  • "Create a life that feels good on the inside, not just one that looks good on the outside." - Anonymous
  • “Everything I was I carry with me, everything I will be lies waiting on the road ahead.” ― Ma Jian
  • "I am never in control of what happens around me, but i am always in control of what happens within me."- Anonymous
  • "There is nothing more important than this moment."- Anonymous
  • "Realize deeply that the present moment is all you have. Make the NOW the primary focus of your life." – Eckhart Tolle
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  • "What you feel spiritually. I think a lot of that has to do with it. If you have no spiritual life, chances are everything is going to aggravate you, you're going to fly off the handle at everything and that's what I did in the past. I've kind of got that under control now."- Mike Ditka
  • "I find that when I put my spiritual life first, the rest of my life is easy. When I put my career first, that's when I have problems."- Macklemore
  • "Don't gain the world and lose your soul; wisdom is better than silver or gold."- Bob Marley 


Inspirational Spiritual Quotes


These inspirational spiritual quotes quotes are perfect for life your mood when you are feeling down. Add them to a heartfelt note or save them for a rainy day. 



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  • "I find that when I put my spiritual life first, the rest of my life is easy. When I put my career first, that's when I have problems."- Macklemore
  • "The most beautiful moments in life are moments when you are expressing your joy, not when you are seeking it." Sadguru
  • “It's not the load that breaks you down, it's the way you carry it.” ― Lou Holtz
  • “It’s only after you’ve stepped outside your comfort zone that you begin to change, grow, and transform.” ― Roy T. Bennett
  • "Incredible things can be done simply if we are committed to making them happen." Sadguru
  • "I am never in control of what happens around me, but i am always in control of what happens within me."
  • "There is nothing more important than this moment."
  • "Follow your intuition, it will always lead you to the right destination."
  • "Let your connection with God be bigger than your fears, have faith in Him."

Beautiful Spiritual Quotes

These quotes highlight the love that spirituality brings to your life. And if you like these quotes, make sure to let me know in comments.


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  • "Why speak, when you can convey far more through silence." Dadi Janki
  • “Let the improvement of yourself keep you so busy that you have no time to criticize others.”
  • “Great things happen to those who don't stop believing, trying, learning, and being grateful.”
  • “There is freedom waiting for you,
  • On the breezes of the sky, And you ask "What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, What if you fly?” ― Erin Hanson
  • “Our wounds are often the openings into the best and most beautiful part of us.” ― David Richo
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  • “Always remember people who have helped you along the way, and don’t forget to lift someone up.”
  • "The only impossible journey is the one you never begin." – Tony Robbins
  • “Make voyages. Attempt them. There’s nothing else.” ― Tennessee Williams
  • "Someone needs your actions to inspire his actions. Never forget, your little broken cake is someone's daily meal! Care to share you little cake!" - Israelmore Ayivor
  • “Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.”– Mark Twain
  • "If you get tired learn to rest not to quit."
  • When you are living the best version of yourself, you inspire others to live the best versions of themselves." - Steve Maraboli
  • “Because in the end, you won’t remember the time you spent working in the office or mowing your lawn. Climb that goddamn mountain.”– Jack Kerouac
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Friday, January 17, 2020

Why is Meditation Important?


How do you feel when your opinion is rejected? I get dejected. Even if I don’t want to fall in the trap of emotional anger, I still do. Then what follows is a series of self-improvement talks with self. I sit in meditation, emerge that person in front of me and try to give some of my positive energy. From where I started 10 years back, there is a lot of difference in the way I handle a conflict. But there’s a long way to go. And that’s why meditation is important to me. 


"The more elevated thoughts you create, the more your value increases."


Meditation has taught me self-control. It has given me the power not to spread negative emotions. If there’s a conflict, I try not to drag it beyond a point. Meditation for is a transformative power which makes living better. It is not just about sitting on a floor and concentrating hard on a single point, but being aware about everything. It is the most direct way to generate intimacy with your own thoughts, cultivating deeper experiences and an understanding of others’ behaviours. It transcends innate capacities to bring about an affair of love with the connection with self. 

A study by Harvard researchers shows benefits of meditation against multitude of conditions both physical and mental. Common physical ailments like irritable bowel syndrome, anxiety, blood pressure, depression, chronic pain, and stress can be controlled. Numerous patients have shown significant improvements by engaging in meditation program, with some of the results becoming better than other existing treatments. The act of letting your inner self take a seat, ponder on thoughts that your mind generate and filtering out what gives you energy on a regular basis is a profound expression of self-care.  

Thoughts for Meditation

From my experience of learning and teaching mindfulness, I am listing 15 thoughts for meditation. You can take a single thought and create your own version of feelings with it or combine a few together for a greater depth of your meditation experience.

  1. I am a soul, a point of light, an energy with infinite potential.
  2. I am a peaceful soul. Peace is my nature. It defines me.
  3. I will treat everyone with care, compassion and courtesy today. This is how I’ll make the world a better place today.
  4. My life is worth my peace. I will not let go of my peacefulness. 
  5. I am in clouds, flying above the disturbances of everydays’ disturbances. This is my peaceful state and no one can move me from it. I will not allow myself to come down from this lightness.
  6. From these eyes, I see the beauty of this world. From colourful flowers to the sound of raindrops and twinkling stars in the sky – I see and feel everything.
  7. My existence is just for this moment. Let me savour this.
  8. Today is the day I will let go of my anger. I will not be irritated or disturbed.
  9. As I sit in the stillness, I am getting free from overthinking. I will not disturb anyone today or get disturbed by anyone.
  10. I will not react to anything today. 
  11. I accept everyone as they are. 
  12. I will think only useful thoughts today. I am light. I am peaceful.
  13. I will not give sorrow to anyone today, nor will I take it.
  14. I will speak with care. I will not hurt anyone with my words.
  15. My thoughts create my feelings. To save myself from useless and painful feelings, I’ll not think about useless or painful thoughts.

Some thoughts for meditation before I close this post. Meanwhile, if you want to read more, here’s my previous post on Finding Your Calm.

Tuesday, January 14, 2020

Finding Your Calm: Why Inner Peace in Important

A man asks a monk if attaining inner peace was possible.  The monk smiles, and asks him to get water to drink first from a nearby river. The man obeys but when he reaches the river he notices that carts have passed through it which has made water muddy and undrinkable. He goes back to monk empty-handed. The monk asks him to wait for some time before going back and checking if mud has settled. The man does the same. He goes back after an hour and is surprised to see that water’s turbulence has settled and its surface can be seen clearly. He takes some of it back for the monk to drink. The monk smiles and shares the learning – when you let it be; the disturbance settles on its own!


Your mind is just like that. When it gets anxious, let it be. Don’t interfere or reason with it. Just give it time to calm down on its own while you harvest the peace that it comes with. When there is peace inside you, it spreads to the outside.  Your vibrations start filling the atmosphere with tranquility of your presence. Inner peace throws out negative emotions from the body by eliminating thoughts that create anxiety, unhappiness, stress and worries. 

Why Do You Need Inner Peace?
Your mind is a culture of what’s happening around you. Inner peace gives a control on your own intelligence, actions and reactions. It is important to have that kind of control over self to bring your mind to a state of harmony and body to calm down. When the internal body mechanism is peaceful; your glands (Thyroid, Pituitary, Hypothalamus and Adrenal) work much well. With the effect of this inner synchronisation, the outer skin also starts to radiate peacefulness.

  1. Inner peace improves your ability to focus, allowing you to concentrate on important things.
  2. Calmness gives you a control over emotions.
  3. You become better equipped to handle your day to day affairs of work and personal life.
  4. Inner peace improves metabolism by reducing the disturbances of the body that disharmonise internal functions.
  5. Inner peace gives you resilience to stand by the matters most dear to you while reducing the temptation of setting in a routine.
  6. It makes your mind enhance its creative powers. You become better colour-coordinated, happy and radiant. 
  7. Inner peace enables you to shed a lot of mental weights that aren’t yours to carry. It makes you light.
  8. Calmness encourages you to shift from the constant state of worry to love, which in itself is a miracle.
  9. You become full with joy and a source of happiness for others too.
  10. Resetting inner peace is a beautiful way to detox the body of harmful emotions like anger, jealousy and hatred.
  11. Inner peace gives you the power to deal with criticism. I have written an entire post on how criticism is not a reflection of who you are, but an opinion of someone who might have his or her own way of looking at things. It is a 2-minute read.  
  12. Inner peace helps you to bring patience, tolerance and tactfulness in your character. 
  13. When the body is mentally and emotionally calm, you can sleep better.
  14. Calmness helps you relax your body and nerves while building a positive attitude towards everything that happens in your life.  
  15. The healing energies of the body show unmatchable, surprising results.

In short, inner peace makes life look brighter!

So good luck in finding your peace and when you do, don’t forget to write to me at sood(dot)nitima(attherate)gmail(dot)com. I’l love to become part of your journey in any small way I can. Till then, be good!
N

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